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A Calendar of Love: Understanding Korea’s Obsession with Couple Anniversaries
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A Calendar of Love: Understanding Korea’s Obsession with Couple Anniversaries

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In many cultures, couples celebrate their one-year anniversary. In South Korea, if you wait a year to celebrate, you might find yourself single! Korean dating culture is famous for its frequency of celebrations. From the "100-Day Anniversary" to "Pepero Day," the Korean calendar is a minefield of romantic milestones.

1. Counting by 100s

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Instead of months, Korean couples count by days. The 100-Day Anniversary (Baek-il) is the first major milestone. Couples often exchange rings ("Couple Rings"), go to fancy dinners, and post coordinated photos on Instagram. After that, they celebrate 200 days, 300 days, and so on.

A couple exchanging rings at a romantic dinner

A digital app showing the number of days a couple has been together

2. The "14th Day" Tradition

Did you know that every 14th of the month is a romantic holiday in Korea?

  • February 14 (Valentine’s Day): Girls give chocolate to boys.
  • March 14 (White Day): Boys give candy to girls.
  • April 14 (Black Day): Single people eat Jajangmyeon (black bean noodles) together to "mourn" their singleness.

A variety of colorful gift boxes for White Day

Friends eating Jajangmyeon together on Black Day

3. Pepero Day (November 11)

11/11 looks like the long, thin Pepero sticks. On this day, everyone—not just couples—exchanges Pepero. It is the biggest commercial holiday in Korea, with stores dedicating entire aisles to giant Pepero gift sets.

FAQ: Dating Survival

Q: Do I really have to celebrate every 100 days? A: It depends on the couple, but for younger generations, it’s a standard expectation. There are even apps specifically designed to track these days so you never forget! Q: What is a 'Couple Look'? A: It’s the trend of couples wearing identical or coordinated outfits (like matching hoodies or shoes) to publicly signal their relationship.

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